We’ve all seen it before — maybe it’s a guy lounging on the sofa with his hand casually tucked into his sweatpants, or someone at home watching TV, completely unaware they’re doing it.

What might surprise some people is that women do it too — and not in a sexual way.

This came to light when one woman on Reddit asked if other women also rest their hands in their pants or waistband while relaxing.

She explained:

“Technically, I know the answer is yes, because I’m a woman and I do. But I’ve only ever heard this talked about as a male stereotype.”