Perry later shared that he recognized signs of emotional abuse from the institution and admired their decision to leave. He compared the palace’s actions—removing security, financial support, and pressure to return—to tactics often used by abusers. His empathy came from personal experience, having witnessed similar patterns in his own life.

As they grew close, Harry and Meghan made a serious call to Perry, asking him to be Lilibet’s godfather. Though honored, Perry joked about not wanting a traditional royal christening in the UK. Instead, he preferred a private moment.

In March 2023, Lilibet was christened at the family’s Montecito home in California by the Archbishop of Los Angeles. The private ceremony was attended by 20–30 guests. Perry flew in on a private jet and brought along a gospel choir for the occasion. Around this time, Harry and Meghan confirmed that their daughter would now use the title “Princess,” which they said was her right as the granddaughter of the reigning monarch.

Reflecting on his children, Harry shared a touching moment in the series. He said he sees a lot of Meghan in their son Archie, and a lot of his late mother, Princess Diana, in Lilibet—especially her “Spencer-like” blue eyes.