Camilla faced years of scrutiny, especially after Princess Diana’s death, but today, she is a respected royal. Once labeled “the most hated woman in Britain” due to her affair with Charles, she even feared going out in public.
She and Charles first met in 1972 but parted ways when he left for the Navy. By the time he returned, Camilla was engaged. Despite this, their bond never faded—even after Charles married Diana.
Royal biographer Penny Junor claimed that Charles knew he wasn’t truly in love with Diana before their wedding, but by then, calling it off was no longer an option.
“Charles was not convinced he was doing the right thing in marrying Diana but there was no way out and, bolstered by the hope that things would be different once they were married, he put a brave face on it,” she wrote, as reported by the Mirror.
Initially, Camilla and Diana were on friendly terms, but over time, their relationship shifted.
“I met [Camilla] very early on. I was introduced to the circle, but I was a threat, I was a very young girl, but I was a threat,” Diana revealed in Diana: In Her Own Words.
According to Prince Charles’ authorized biography, cited by Town & Country, his affair with Camilla began in 1986. At the time, Charles was still married to Diana, who eventually discovered her husband’s infidelity.
Diana even confronted Camilla once, but nothing changed.
The infamous phone call exposed a deeply personal and intimate conversation between Charles and Camilla, later dubbed Tampongate.
Despite relentless scrutiny from the media, their relationship endured. On April 9, 2005, the couple officially tied the knot in a civil ceremony at Windsor Guildhall.
During the wedding reception, the late Queen Elizabeth raised a toast to the newlyweds. However, she had her own priorities, briefly stepping into another room to watch a horse race.
“I have two important announcements to make. The first is that Hedgehunter has won the Grand National,” the queen said.
“They have overcome Becher’s Brook and The Chair and all kinds of other terrible obstacles. They have come through, and I’m very proud and wish them well. My son is home and dry with the woman he loves,” Queen Elizabeth II added, drawing a playful comparison to her horses.
Camilla grew up in privilege, splitting time between East Essex and South Kensington. She fondly recalls her childhood as “idyllic,” filled with pets, ponies, and countryside adventures. “We even rode our ponies to school,” she shared. “Can you imagine that happening today?”
According to Town & Country, Camilla’s parents were regular shoppers at the prestigious Harrods department store, and she inherited the skill of small talk from her mother, who came from an aristocratic background.
Camilla shared with Women’s Day, “My mother was absolutely brilliant at making us speak to people. She used to have people to dinner; it didn’t matter who it was, old or young, some of them we thought were incredibly boring, but she used to sit at the end of the table and say: ‘Talk! I don’t care whether you’re talking about your pony or your homework, just talk!’ She was also quite forthright and never minced her words.”
Despite mastering this “art,” Camilla has always had problems with giving speeches.
Camilla attended the prestigious Swiss finishing school Mon Fertile, where she refined her social skills under the mentorship of elegant society women. After her time in Switzerland, she pursued further education at the Institut Britannique in Paris before eventually making her way back to London.
During her first marriage, Camilla held a steady job. As reported by the *Mirror*, she worked as a secretary at several firms in London’s West End and later took on a receptionist role at the renowned interior design company Sibyl Colefax & John Fowler in Mayfair. Her education included time at Dubrells School in Sussex and Queen’s Gate School in South Kensington before attending the Institut Britannique in Paris, where she studied English and French Literature.
In the book *On The Fringe—A Life In Decorating*, designer Imogen Taylor, a former colleague at Colefax and Fowler, recalled an instance when a young Camilla arrived at work late after a night of partying.
Taylor claimed Camilla was then yelled at and fired.
In a 2016 interview with the Sunday Times, she revealed: “There were lots of debutantes working for us, even Camilla. She worked for us for a moment but got the sack.”
Recalling their boss’s temper, Taylor said, “He would shout and bellow so the whole building heard every word. The Duchess of Cornwall was one assistant who fell victim to one of his tantrums. I think she came in late, having been to a dance.”
Despite this, Camilla’s finances remained unaffected, as she was already well-off.
Today, she stands as one of the most respected and admired members of the royal family.